Discover Ideas to Make Wedding Planning a Team Effort, Fun and a Reflection of You Both
Let’s face it—some partners don’t light up at the mention of color palettes or floral arrangements. But that doesn’t mean wedding planning has to be a one-person show. Whether your partner secretly loves ranunculus or couldn’t tell it apart from a rose, there are plenty of creative and meaningful ways to make planning your Philadelphia wedding fun for both of you. Here are some enjoyable ways to team up and make the process feel less like a chore—and more like part of the celebration.
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How to Turn Wedding Planning into Quality Time
Savor the Flavor Together
A catering tasting is one of the most enjoyable parts of wedding planning—and the perfect opportunity to involve your partner. Explore signature cocktails, sample entrees, and bond over dessert decisions. It’s not just about food; it’s about creating an experience you’ll both remember.
Dance Through the Decision
Entertainment sets the tone for your entire wedding celebration, so choosing the right band or DJ is key. Many performers host public live showcases—perfect for a fun night out with your partner to see their talent and vibe firsthand. It’s a great way to test the dance floor and make memories while planning. For example, BVTLive has weekly live showcases that is guaranteed to get you smiling and swinging to a beat.
Sip, Savor, and Select Together
Champagne, Prosecco, or Cava—can you taste the difference? Your budget definitely can. Make it a fun evening in with your partner by sampling a few options together to discover your favorites. Many couples opt to reserve the premium bubbles for behind the bar while offering a more cost-effective pour for the toast. Taste-testing together is both practical and a playful way to bond over bubbly.
Wine lovers may already have some favorites but if you are unfamiliar, reach out to your beverage service company or caterer to see if they have group tastings. If not, consider having a wine tasting party at home with your closest friends or family. A few reds and a few whites or blush to see if a chardonnay or pinot grigio is more your style. For those close to Wilmington, Delaware, FranksWine offers tastings as fun as date night itself.
Beer Tasting, But Make It Wedding Planning
Not into wine? Try a beer tasting instead! Gather your partner, their crew, and your wedding party for a laid-back and fun night of “research.” If you’re planning to offer local craft brews or microbrews at your Philadelphia wedding, this is a great way to explore options while enjoying good company. Be sure to note both flavor and cost—and don’t forget to serve snacks to complement your sips.
Cake Tasting: A Delicious Decision-Making Date
Ready for the sweetest part of wedding planning? Schedule a cake tasting with your partner and dive into a world of flavors, buttercream options, and fillings. Find a Philadelphia bakery that specializes in wedding cakes and check if they offer tasting appointments (they book up fast!). It’s a fun and indulgent way to make decisions together—and yes, definitely come hungry.
