Expert Tips on Choosing the Right Philadelphia Wedding Music
Trying to figure out your Philadelphia wedding music? Music plays a powerful role in setting the tone for your wedding, from the moment guests arrive to the very last song of the night. We reached out to Craig Sumsky, owner of Cutting Edge DJs, for expert advice on how to curate the perfect playlist and avoid musical missteps on your big day.
Whenever possible, aim for love songs. They’re timeless, emotional, and help reinforce the reason everyone’s gathered in the first place. That said, not every crowd-pleaser fits the theme of everlasting love.
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Craig explains, “One of the most requested wedding songs is ‘I Will Survive’ by Gloria Gaynor which is famously about a breakup. Same with Taylor Swift’s ‘We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together.’ These songs may fill the dance floor, but they’re more fun than romantic.”
The key? Context and intention. If the bride specifically requests one of these sassy breakup anthems, go for it. But when the DJ is left to make the call, song selection becomes a responsibility. It’s not a free-for-all. If a guest requests an Elton John song, for example, “Your Song” would be far more fitting than “The Bitch Is Back.”
Craig emphasizes, “When you hire a professional Wedding DJ, you’re trusting them to read the room, know the right moments, and choose songs that elevate not distract from the celebration.”
Here are a few smart tips to help guide your wedding music choices:
Wedding Music Tips from a Pro
Listen to the Lyrics
Make sure you (or your DJ) actually read or listen to the lyrics before choosing a song especially for key moments like your first dance. What sounds romantic may carry an unexpected message.
Hire a DJ Who Knows Weddings
A great club DJ isn’t necessarily a great wedding DJ. During interviews, ask about their wedding experience and how they handle different parts of the celebration, from ceremony to cake cutting.
Set Boundaries, But Stay Flexible
Share a must-play and do-not-play list, but also trust your DJ’s expertise. Their job is to keep the energy up, read the room, and create seamless transitions.
Personalize Your Playlist
Include songs that reflect your relationship, your shared memories, and your personalities. A mix of classics, love songs, and dance-floor favorites keeps everyone engaged.
Know When to Say No
Some songs just don’t belong especially during key moments. Ask your DJ to politely decline inappropriate requests for your Philadelphia wedding music. Or save them for a private afterparty.
Let the Music Tell Your Story
Your wedding soundtrack should reflect your love, your style, and the joy of the day. With thoughtful song choices and a trusted professional like Craig Sumsky or another experienced Philadelphia wedding DJ, your music can elevate every moment (from the walk down the aisle to the last spin on the dance floor). Choose wisely, listen closely, and most of all, have fun with it. After all, your love story deserves the perfect soundtrack.